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In retrospect...

by Onehundredfrogs @ 2008-08-04 - 11:14:41

You've got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
This is the story of one woman who was dating 100 men in an effort to find Mr Right but then she found him

Man number 11 and me have now past our one-year anniversary. It was a month ago. I’ve just read through this blog and I have really enjoyed myself since I started it. Things have changed for sure. I’ve had contact with a couple of men that I dated – a text and an email here and there. I recently had a few emails from Man number 9.

He met someone and moved in with her soon after our date. I remember really liking him and was a bit upset when it turned out he didn’t like me as much. But now he’s been emailing me asking for help and advice because his relationship has gone wrong.

It turns out he’s gone off her. The worst thing about it is that she’s pregnant and he’s asked her to move out. In his email he said: “I don’t want to do her anymore.”

I was quite sympathetic with him at first but then after he went into the details I could see that he was just a very damaged and selfish person and I stopped contacting him. I did tell him also that I thought what he’d done was despicable and said I’m glad I didn’t get involved with him.

I can’t help thinking she’ll be absolutely devastated. I feel very sorry for her and don’t want to think about how alone and lost she must feel. From what he said it looks like he didn’t give her any idea that he was having negative feelings and so must have dropped the “I don’t love you,” thing on her like a nuclear bomb.

It just shows you that you should try not to judge when things go wrong in your life because if I’d known the outcome of this I would have been very pleased that it didn’t work out instead of being upset.

Anyway, I’m very happy to be with the lovely Man Number 11 and wouldn’t want any of the frogs I previously dated or any of the future frogs that I would have dated if we hadn’t been in the same place at the same time just over a year ago.


 
 

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