You've got to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
This is the story of one woman dating 100 men in an effort to find Mr Right

I’m not sure but I think I’ve just discovered a new pulling technique for girls who want serious relationships and who want to stay in control.

Fat Scouser behaved badly, right?

Right?

But he WAS extremely funny, fun to be with and interesting and really quite sexy. The only thing I didn’t like about him was the intense pressure to go to bed with him. It began to overshadow all the fun we’d had in the beginning. It destroyed a developing friendship.

So, as you know I dumped him by text last Saturday.

Today I thought about this and decided to text him. I said:

“Hi, I know you’ll think I’m mad but I thought you were a really nice person – really funny. It would be a shame to lose you. Would you like to go out for a no-strings drink and be friends?”

He replied instantly with:

“Hey you. I was thinking the same thing over the weekend. Abso bloody lutely! Don’t think you’re mad at all. If it’s not to be, it’s not to be. But at least we can have a laugh together J It would be lovely to meet up soon. Hope you’re ok. Xx”

So there’s another avenue open (that’s three now, isn’t it?)

So the technique is when you start to lose control of the situation, dump them. Then wait a bit and re-establish contact, changing the circumstances to ‘friendship’. This is really the only real way you can get to know someone anyway. I wonder what I can call the technique? Any ideas on a postcard to... just leave a comment.

If you think that’s playing games. I wasn’t. I really did want to meet up with the norty monkey again. Also, if you’re a bloke reading this and you get pissed off with women playing games then stop playing them yourself! What else is pretending to be interested in someone in order to get them into bed?! :-P

Here’s a key to the three men on the scene at the moment, so you don’t get lost in names and numbers:

Man number 3 (celebrity look-e-like: Edward Norton)

We met, went out five times and I stopped contacting him. He got back in touch after finding a girlfriend and we became friends. He kissed me last week and then apologised.

Man number 6 (celebrity look-e-like: Richard Gere)

Slow burning, widely spread dates. Has expressed interest in pursuing some sort of relationship.

Man number 7 (celebrity look-e-like: Sinbad out of Brookside)

Have ended dating under pressure to have sex. Now we’re going to go out as friends.

So many men... how will I find the time